Pamela Marie Palmer

  • Born: December 9, 1970
  • Died: January 28, 2013
  • Location: Bay City, Michigan

Penzien-Steele Funeral Home

608 N. Madison Avenue
Bay City, MI 48708

Tel. (989) 892-8531

Tribute & Message From The Family

Age 42 years, passed away January 28, 2013 at Hurley Hospital, Flint due to injuries sustained in an auto accident. She was born in Bay City, MI on December 9, 1970 to the late James G. and Maxine (Fleming) Palmer Sr. Pam was a member and was employed at the Fraternal Order of Eagles Aerie No. 1010.

Survivors include 2 sons: Justin James Palmer and Shawn Michael Palmer, a brother James G. Palmer, Jr., 3 sisters: Debbie Schultz, Cherie Walraven and Kimberly (Rusty) Publow, a brother-in-law George Deitlein, several nieces and nephews, a lifelong friend Christine Sickle, a good friend Oscar Rodriguez and her bingo buddy Norm. She was preceded in death by a sister Carol Dietlein.

Funeral and committal service will be Tuesday, February 5, 2013 at 11 a.m. at Penzien-Steele Funeral Home. The Rev. Susan E. Platt will officiate. Private burial will be at Floral Gardens Cemetery. The Eagles Memorial Service will be held on Monday at 7 p.m. Memorials may be made to the family wishes. Visiting hours will be Monday from 2 to 5 and 7 to 9 p.m.


Condolence & Memory Journal


I still cant believe your gone its crazy im lost without u I love and miss you mom

Posted by shawn palmer - bay city, MI - son   December 16, 2014

Love u mom

Posted by Shawn Palmer - Bay city, MI - Son   November 20, 2014

I love and miss u mom u where the best person that lived in this earth just wish i could have had a few words to say before u left fly high love and miss you.

Posted by shawn palmer - bay city, MI - son   May 06, 2014


I am so sorry wow I didn't even know I just found out I can't believe this, my prayers go out to her family and her kids. She was a good friend hung out in junior high and high school she was awesome. Remember staying at her house a few times goodtimes! I will miss her dearly!! love ya Pam!!

Posted by lori hoffman - bay city mi, MI - friend   October 05, 2013

I just wanted to say I miss and love u the last words was still I love u and how we where driving down the road jamming to ur songs

Posted by shawn palmer - bay city, MI - son   July 18, 2013

Debbie, Cherie & Jim....I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister Pam. She is now an angel watching over the three of you. Karen Hayward

Posted by Karen Hayward - Munger, MI   February 05, 2013

We are so sorry for the lose of your sister, and mother, friend, we remember Pam mainly when she was little, she came and helped us play ball and watch are children, she would come into rite aid always wearing a smile telling me what was new in her life, god has an angel with him.
Anna and Randy Roach

Posted by Anna Roach - Bay City, MI - Friend   February 03, 2013

Soooo going to miss you, Pammie! The Eagles won't be the same without your smiley face! My prayers are with your family. So sorry Debbie!

Posted by Rich Ellison - Rockford, IL - friend   February 01, 2013

I just heard this sad news, My Family was friends with the Palmer family for as long as i can remember,Pam was such a kind sweet spirited funny girl,she will be very missed by so many,GOD HAS HER NOW,And She Is In Good Company,Our condolences from The Naples Family to The Palmer Family,we are so sorry for your Loss

Posted by Todd Naples - VANCOUVER, OR - FRIEND   February 01, 2013

Pam was a wonderful person, I've known her my whole life, it saddens me to miss her funeral but I move tomorrow. Justin and Shawn if you need anything get ahold of me

Posted by Hilary Huffman - Rawlins, WY - friend   February 01, 2013

Aunt Pam there is not a day that goes by that I do not miss you. I just wish this was just a dream and ill wake up. I am so glad that even though you are not here with us anymore you will always be around. You are such a great person <3 pam high fly aunt>

Posted by Brittany - Bay city, MI - Niece   February 01, 2013

My prayers go to Pam and her Family. She was a great person her whole life very caring always! She is in Heaven. Always sweet always smiling and laughing many good times with her. Linda Taylor McRae

Posted by Linda McRae - Bay City, MI - Friend   February 01, 2013

we had lots of good times together growing up will be miss so much,,i love you friend .....

Posted by becky martinez - saginaw, MI - old friend   February 01, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Pam. I met her through the Eagle's Club about 15 years ago. She was a sweetheart. Love her much. She will be missed. Lover and prayers for her family and her friends. Again soooo sorry...

Posted by Wendy Witkop - Munger, MI - friend   February 01, 2013


My thoughts and prayers go out to Pam's family and friends. Its a tragedy that she had to leave so soon. she will be truely missed.

Posted by Becky Martinez - saginaw, MI - old friend   February 01, 2013

Prayers to the family.

Posted by Dawn Nievierowski - Aureila, IA - Friend   January 31, 2013


many memories from bingo,she was always smiling what a great person.i know all of the Palmers while growing up.haven gained another angel but earth lost a "special "person. :)

Posted by luis rey salinas - n.myrtle,beach, SC - family friend   January 31, 2013

You will be forever missed my dear friend.

Posted by tanya ahrens - bay city, MI - close friend   January 31, 2013


God just gained another wonderful person in heaven...May god bless the whole family my prayers and symphony...

Posted by Alejandro Miguel - Bay City, MI - friend   January 31, 2013